Hate

Hate is a powerful and very inappropriately used word much like anti or tolerant. Anti make you seem extreme much like hate does and if you aren't tolerant then you are anti something or a hate monger. I hate stuff, action, even people, but I can learn to get over my hatred without tolerating. I hate cigarettes and I have difficulty tolerating them because I am allergic. I hate when someone constantly misunderstand me either on purpose or by misunderstanding. Now for people I don't really hate them but what they do yet when I show my distaste of what they do I am called a hater of some sort like I hate cigarettes and I hate when someone smokes around me, it doesn't mean I hate the person but that I am allergic and would prefer to breath without coughing or sneezing uncontrollably. Some people respect that I am allergic while others are so addicted they actually tell me to just deal with it. Needless to say I try to avoid people like that because they have no respect for other or themselves and they don't even realize it.

Now the cigarette analogy is true, I am allergic to them and it doesn't mean I hate anyone just as I hate that people over eat, or are out of shape, or give into temptations like alcohol, sex, drugs, porn and so many things that are addictive. Many give in to temptations and justify them like being born a certain way, or being genetically prone to certain things or number of other reasons yet I am a hater and they are just born that way. Why can't I be born the way I am? Oh wait a minute, I was born and I learned a little, and I have been tempted a lot and given in plenty but my temptation do not define me but I do deal with them.